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Are you a person who waits until Christmas Eve to do the bulk of
your Christmas shopping? Or, when filing your taxes, do you wait
until April 12th to start sorting through the shoe boxes filled
with receipts? And then do you wait in those long lines at the Post
Office to mail the return? When a member of your organization has
a complaint that you need to address, do you find other items suddenly
becoming more pressing? If so, you are not alone.
Procrastination is the continual avoidance of starting or seeing
a task through to completion. It is one of the most common stumbling
blocks to managing time. Straightening the desk, reading the mail,
cleaning the house, washing the car, et al., are all tasks that
have to be done. But if by doing any of those tasks you avoid doing
the A-number-one-top priorities, like filing your taxes, making
follow-up phone calls, implementing a new marketing program, or
tackling a complicated project, you are procrastinating. To combat
the tendency to "put things off" start by looking at the
underlying causes of delay .
1. INABILITY TO SAY "NO"
How often have you said yes to demands on your time before evaluating
your desire or ability to fulfill them? When you overcommit yourself
you can be forced to delay because you are in fact unable to find
the time. It is often difficult to say "no" to a request
particularly if the person asking is in need. Working for an Association
requires helpfulness, friendliness and availability. So, you accept
even if the location is unattractive, they make a case for needing
your special skills, or they have been a member forever.
2. FEAR
The root cause of most avoidance is fear -- and there are many
kinds. Fear of failure, success, rejection, anger, embarrassment
or any negative emotion. If you are asked to make a speech and the
thought of standing before an audience is terrifying, what happens?
Do you wonder what is going on in their collective minds? Do you
worry that they will not like, approve, or agree with what you have
to say? And the worst case: What if they ask a question that you
cannot answer? This process of anticipation and worry about a worst
case scenario can escalate the fear until it becomes unmanageable.
3. AN UNPLEASANT TASK
Very few of us are eager to do something that is distasteful. The
longer you avoid it, the more seeming freedom and control you have.
The longer you wait the better the chance that it will go away or
someone else will do it. As soon as you procrastinate the sooner
you get an immediate reward -- in this case, not having to start
the unpleasant task.
BREAKING THROUGH PROCRASTINATION
The next time that you are asked to accept yet another thing to
do, resist the tendency to answer immediately. Offer to call them
back after you have thought about it. Consider what chairing the
fund-raising committee really means. Look at your calendar,
brush off your resolutions, and most important: determine the true
nature of the task. How much of your time, energy and resources
will it really take?
When a task is unpleasant, evaluate the need to do it at all. Ask
if it can be done less often or more quickly. Is it a task that
can be bartered away or hired out? If you must handle it, try to
do it sooner rather than later. The longer you wait, the more hateful
it becomes. You can spend a great deal of anxious psychic energy
doing the job in your mind over and over again. Spend that energy
actually doing the task and then begin to reap the benefits of having
it finished.
Do not let fear immobilize you. A good technique to use in lessening
its impact is to actively visualize yourself facing and overcoming
it. Do you believe that the audience will laugh at you? That they
will ask you questions you cannot answer? That they will doubt your
expertise? Practice the speech before a mirror, into a tape recorder,
before friends. Anticipate the difficult questions and find the
answers. Have yourself introduced as an authority in the field with
x-number of years experience (if it is true, of course). Ask associates
to share tips on how they handle fear and nervousness. Channel that
fear into actions to overcome the fear.
When you find yourself procrastinating ask yourself "What
is really so bad about it?" Remember, anticipation is much
worse than the actual occurrence can ever be. When you simply are
not in the mood to tackle the project, remember: Once you start
something related to the project, no matter how small that portion
may be, you are no longer procrastinating.
Odette Pollar is a nationally known speaker, author, and consultant
to business, government, and industry. She founded TIME MANAGEMENT
SYSTEMS, a training firm based in Oakland, California. Her book,
Organizing Your Workspace: A Guide to Personal Productivity
(Crisp, 1992) is available for $9.95 per copy (plus $3.50 S &
H). Call TMS at 1-800-599-TIME or mail to 1441 Franklin Street,
Suite 301, Oakland, California 94612.
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